Friday, June 18, 2010

Play The Right Way

What is it with the counting of titles as a measurement of a player's greatness? Shouldn't it be on how important the player is to his team when it is winning? If the number of titles was the defining factor, wouldn't Robert Horry be the greatest power forward of all time?
-- Sam M., Helsinki, Finland

I tend to agree with your second question, Sam. You're right, Robert Horry should not be up there among the greatest ever. But when it comes to separating the players at the top of the list, their ability to make the biggest difference and complete the ultimate championship goal has to be an enormous tiebreaker. The players themselves view it that way. (by Ian Thomsen, CNNSI.com basketball correspondent)


Read more: http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2010/writers/ian_thomsen/06/17/countdown.lakers.celtics/1.html#ixzz0rFvLFJYo

My viewpoint: I disagree with with Mr. Ian Thomsen. After watching a dazzling 7-game series between bitter rivals the Lakers and the Celtics, reporters jumped to all sorts of articles and reviews of the series and then to their own conclusions about the next season, even though the Lakers just lifted the golden flask. I always love how reporters ask about next season when they just got the darn piece of metal in their hands. Let the players enjoy the moment!

People always define success as achievements. Whether it be a promotion at work, a championship, an award, a certificate, or a high GPA. We all want it, and keep in mind there is nothing wrong with success as a motivator, unless that becomes your idol. Success, from a secular point of view, is what drives people to excel at their art or job so they can put out the best possible product. Its good incentive to work hard so people can watch the benefits and improve on them.

Yet, does success define a good player or worker, especially in sports? I like Sam M.'s question, especially about Robert Horry. I believe the underlying implication of his question is this: does success really make a person a quality player, worker, or individual? Or does playing well and helping others win more important?

We know the greats of basketball like Jordan, Bird, and Dr. J. Winning championships are part of their resumes. We recognize greatness because they reached the pinnacle of it. Kobe Bryant got his fifth last week. We know these guys play phenomenal basketball, established in the annals of peach-basket history.

However, looking at that alone, does that mean everyone else who didn't win a championship "unsuccessful?" Does getting a piece of medal mean "you did it the right way?" Or, to better put it, do players like Karl Malone, John Stockton, Charles Barkley, or Reggie Miller, who never won a championship, are they "failures?"

The answer is a resounding no. Ian Thomsen says, "even players themselves view it that way," referring to that players see that between completing a championship and just doing well enough separates the "gods" and the "boys."

Let's face it, winning any championship at any level is a difficult task. Teamwork, practice, individual workouts, recovery etc...the investment takes years before someone gets there. Someone ends up on top, they achieve success for doing all the right things that earn them a championship. So competition weeds out the best from the better, better from the average. Only one gets there, the chances are few.

Yet what makes a successful player? Who do you admire more? We admire Kobe because he works hard. We admire Derek Fisher because he is a leader. They won championships.

So what about basketball players like Steve Nash? Dirk Nowitzki? (No championships) Or soccer players Luis Figo? Eusebio? Edwin Van Der Sar? (Footballers who never won the World Cup) Are they unsuccessful? I believe Ian Thomsen's answer is flawed because it bases on the assumption that its how others view their career, but not based on a more important standard of success: 1. did they play the right way, 2. did they play fair and respectfully, and 3. did they do it consistently.

In my opinion, Robert Horry, a former player who was won multiple championships with multiple teams, is one of the worst power forwards in the history of the NBA. But he has multiple rings, so he deserves credit for being a team player. But comparing his play in the regular season vs. play-offs, I saw one major problem: no consistency. In the regular season, he simply is listless, idle and gets a few shots. Finally, when the playoffs came, he "suddenly rises" up to play and hits downtown shots that lift this team, hence his nickname, "Big Shot Rob." See, he only came alive because that's where "games supposedly count." I think Robert Horry was a poor player because he just came alive only when he wanted to. He just makes big shots because he can.

For playing the right way (#1): you have John Stockton. John Stockton was the former Utah Jazz point guard wizard who could pass the ball really well. Most nights and regular season games he played well and helped his team win alot. He connected the passes with his teammates, including the most famous quarterback-wide receiver connection, "Stockton to Malone." He played his heart out and "sadly," never won a championship. Yet some things you forget is: he won a gold medal for the U.S. Olympic team and he won the Western Conference championship (the prelude to the NBA Championship). People overlook such achievements. But he is a hall of famer because he played the right way and people will always remember for passing the like no other.

Now about the consistency part (#3). If I were to teach my son basketball, or a rec-team how to play ball, who would I use as an example to teach how to play power forward? Charles Barkley or Robert Horry? Of course I would use the big southern forward from Alabama (Barkley) to demonstrate how to play. Robert Horry chucked shots, while Barkley wrecked defenses, scored, and helped his team. For playing defense, I would use someone like Ron Artest as an example how to hound defenders, stop the other team's leading scorer, and teach how to move on defense like Artest. Even though Artest won a championship recently, I still thought he was successful before because he knows how to play defense.

Back to #2, talking about playing fair. Who is more successful in terms of playing fair? Steve Nash? Reggie Miller? Derek Fisher? I look up to all these guys, two of them who never won a championship (Miller and Nash) because they play hard and don't behave like wild men on or off the court. They were classy guys, played fair, and receive the respect of the fans, the press, and their colleagues and opposition.

I remember in an article when a reporter asked Steve Nash about this recent elimination to the Lakers this past summer in the Western Conference finals. Nash responded to an inquiry about getting to the NBA finals and if he felt remorse about not making it yet. Nash responded along the lines of "how successful they were this year" because of the fact that they got this far despite the press' low expectations of their season. He also mentioned for himself, personally, that getting this far goes beyond his expectations. He mentions he came from a modest school (University of Santa Clara), while coming this far with his Phoenix Suns and the trials they have been through as a team; he is satisfied with his career. His team also swept his hated nemesis this season in the 2nd round of the playoffs, the San Antonio Spurs.

To wrap this up, I think what is important is to be look at the whole spectrum of the definition of success. Being successful is not just looking at the person who hoists up a trophy in the end. Trophies glitter and shine, but I believe players shine with or without them. Basing someone's career on material achievements demeans someone's effort and character if they fall short. I'm not saying competition is unfair and that some players deserve championships than others, because that's why we have sports, there's got to be a winner.

Yet it is more fruitful to look at a player's career in any sport based on how they play, they played it well, and they played it consistently. A championship is basically the fruit on top of their career...not the meat of it. Finally, the irony is that players don't win championships and are successful on their own...the teams do. People used to criticize Kobe Bryant because without "Shaquille O' Neal, he would never have won any championships on his own." Yet I could use that same argument for Shaq: without Kobe, he wouldn't have a wingman to put the ball in the net.







Sunday, June 6, 2010

Do You Miss Korea, Marky?

So its been two months since I have arrived home from the Republic of Korea. Going from one culture, the U.S., to the ROK was obviously not easy during a three-year period, but through the Lord we conquered it together and along the way, He revealed some interesting things about myself.

Now, try the reverse culture-osmosis process: going from a second homeland, the ROK, back to Obamaland with the mindset of now you are not here for a visit, but for good! Its a more difficult process, but through Christ Jesus He equips through His word to get the work done.

But for now, for a short blog, here are things I miss and don't miss about the ROK with details attached.

"I'm Missing You 대한민국..." List

1. Korean Bathhouses: I get a lot of flack for this one from my fellow American friends. You get the picture...don't need to describe the situation. Yet from a cultural and health point of view, the Korean bathhouse was a special way for me, whether alone or with a few friends, to kick back and relax in the hot bath and sweat it out in the sauna. It was also a place, especially during times where it was the least busy, I would bring my Bible and have some prayer time with the Lord. I loved it...praying, confessing my sins, getting the gunk out of my wicked heart and replacing it with a fresh one, all in the while my skin is being refreshed...

2. Public Transportation: Best in the world. Cheap, could get to one end of the country and back. In America, you need a car. You have to figure out roads. In Korea, they figure it out for you.

3. Korean food: healthy, invigorating, and good...oh so good! But my mom is one baaddd cook! Shut yo mouth and do the dishes Marky!

4. Korean people: how can I not miss my mama's people? Sure, they're hot-blooded and sometimes they live too fast...but Koreans, once you get to know them, they are loyal for life.

5. My students: boys and girls alike...they were so kind and sweet, well most of them. But the ones I developed a good relationship with, had fun jokes, shared the hard times and bad test scores, or triumphs of joy, I felt my students were like little sisters and brothers to me. Forget students...they were my siblings. I miss em' alot dude.

6. My Church Fellowship Back In Seoul and Incheon. Real fellowship and prayer. Real talk. American churches need a real lesson on fellowship. Its not "did you watch the Lost series finale?" Bump that, I want "what have you been reading in the Word? How can I pray for you sister?" No fake stuff, but genuine believers who love the Lord coming together and getting it done because He is able.

"Oh Bump That..." List, Things I Don't Miss!

1. No More Social Obligations for Work! "Let's go to dinner after work." "Let's get a drink after work." I don't want to! I appreciate the fact that in America we work and leave work behind once we clock out. Having dinner with co-workers is fine, and I understand that its Korean culture to "co-worker" bond, but in the end it was more of a burden for me because I rather connect with friends or with the Lord rather than waste an entire evening watching others drink too much. No sir.

2. The Anglo-Korean Hypocrisy: "Yeah, we love English-ee, but don't ask me to speak it." "What?" "Don't ask me to learn it for real and use it with REAL people, sorry, just be a cool teacher and don't make learn anything..." Then why did you hire us? The irony to that last statement is, the Koreans' love affair for English English created an entire new economy of jobs for young (or old) expatriates who wanted an opportunity of a lifetime: see a new country, live abroad, learn a new language, try new things and learn new customs, learn a new history, make new relationships. It was the ultimate draw but the experience for some is a mixed-bag. Don't get me wrong, I loved the work that the Lord entrusted to me during my time at the boys and girls' high schools. He did as much more and beyond than I know during my time there, some of the effects I will never know until eternity. With that said, in real life, a love affair without communication or desire to communicate causes friction. It causes pain and awkward situations. Now, the Korean public school system is so stuck in turtle mode as it gets more defensive and lockdown mode as their method of teaching suffocates my students into test-taking machines. Parents these days are stuck in paying massive amounts of money on tutoring and after-school programs with the recession hitting people hard. To solve this problem, as I have been saying all along..."choose the right people for the job." Choose the right students who want to learn English, and you'll make the learning easier.

3. Kim Jong-il and his government. May the Lord deal with him severely, or perhaps he will come to know the Lord and His grace.

4. K-Pop. Yikes. "Nobody, nobody but you!" "Bo-peep bo-peep." "Listen to my heartbeat." The likes of G-Dragon, T-ara, 2AM, Shinee (even though I taught one of the members of that group), and other manufactured pop dolls suck away the true creativity of music. And the American Music Machine doesn't help. Most of my girls, I still love em, were pop-culture clones who never listened to what they were told on the radio.

5. Pollution. Its nice to breathe easier.

There you go...what I miss and don't miss.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Gotta Go With A New Look...

I revamped this whole blog set-up. Well, not totally, just a few new pics and a new theme. For three years, I've been the "transformer." Now I'm the "samurai-in-training." That might change too, or tweaked. I felt its time for a change.

Just some qualifiers and notes of why the theme change:

1. I admire samurai rhetoric and discipline, but not their history. They are warriors who live devoted lives to their master and follow his way to the end, no matter the cost.

2. I like the idea of samurai in the context of serving the Ultimate Shogun, Jesus Christ, who rules all. He has also given us the katana of truth...the Bible, to fight the attacks of the dark world.

3. I always like Japanese culture to a degree, but I love God's Truth more. (I still have my love for Korean culture fam, don't worry!)

4. Its time for a change.

My goal for this blog from this new era of my life is to catalog the new direction that I am going. Lord Willing, I hope to reveal what the Lord is showing me on what I need to do next to serve Him. For summary, my life so far can be categorized in a few phases:

a. Military kid-life (1990-1997)
b. Civilian teenage life (1998-2002)
c. College and Career Stage (Off to Maryland state universities, 2002-2006)
d. Self-imposed exile to the Republic of Korea (3 years)
e. Return to the Soni Shogunate Imperial Palace, ruled by Korean empress 박인희. (My mother, who makes all decisions for the household, my dad is a figurehead ruler and has limited power ㅋ ㅋ)

Part "e:" after exile to the Republic of Korea to experience life on my own, guided by the Heavenly Shogun, I learned more about the work of the Lord and His grace. Now I am back with no job, no clear goal, no work handed to me by Kami-sama ("Jehovah" in Japanese) just yet.

I wait, patiently wait, and learn to appreciate and use this time for the next assignment.

Its back to the castle, to train, to meditate on His Word, and to complete my duties here until I get a new job and mission. Get it done...

Get It Done...

Get It Done...
2010: The Year of the Soni Tiger